It would appear that even whilst I don't use either
Twitter or
Facebook -- I happen to be held hostage often to
Farmville.
I have elected not to join either two communities for several reasons:
- I seriously spend far too many hours a day on a computer (12-18 hours a day). I don't need something else to add to the hours.
- I like keeping some level of personal privacy. I really don't have a need to post what I ate for breakfast, what my favourite book/movie/music/clothing is. (You really want to know my favourite music is -- follow me on last.fm). I also have a blog where I can write down my thoughts/opinions/frustrations already.
- I have multiple methods to keep in touch with those I elect to already. (Email, IM, Telephone, SMS). I seriously couldn't give a flying razoo about people I went to primary/high school/Uni with. I haven't seen them for over 20 years, and I don't have the desire to kindle the relationship due to the mere fact we attended the same education institution (and for the majority of that time -- compulsory; I'm sure neither of us wanted to be there!)
Having said that -- I don't object to others that do use the services. Each to their own I say.
(But don't expect me to accept invites for either -- both are duly ignored!)
Pauline is a Facebook user, she enjoys it... she catches up with a lot of old friends via it. She has put off joining Farmville for months, but finally caved to the constant barrage of invites and joined.
I now seems our daily life resolves around 'harvest time'... a classic case of seeing the
Farmville Alarm come into effect. An often quoted phrase at present is
'Ohh, I have to go harvest X .... gimme 10 mins.'
This can happen at the most inconvenient times.
So at present, I feel I'm affectively a Farmville hostage. I'm wanting a virtual world-war to break out so that bombers blow up the fields. I might get a bit of normality back in my life.